Why do parents think it’s ok to lie to their children about
Santa Claus, the Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy? They teach them that lying
is wrong but they do it themselves. That’s kind of hypocritical, don’t you
think?
There’s nothing wrong with telling them about these
fictional characters. There’s nothing wrong with taking them to the
Santa Claus parade or the Easter parade. Just as long as they walk away knowing
that the man in the red suit and the person wearing those big floppy ears aren’t
real.
I was 10 when I found out that Santa Claus wasn’t real. One
of my classmates and I argued back and forth until they started laughing at me.
I went home that afternoon and confronted my Mom about it. That’s when she
finally told me the truth. Santa Claus didn’t climb down
the chimney on Christmas Eve to deliver presents to me or my siblings. All
those presents that were marked “From Santa” were really from my Mom and Dad. I
was crushed. For 10 years, my Mom thought it was ok
to lie to me.
I never believed in the Easter Bunny. The thought of Easter
bunnies laying chocolate eggs seemed ridiculous.
I don’t remember when I stopped believing in the Tooth
Fairy. It was definitely before I was ten. Back in the 80’s, we only received
25 cents for losing a tooth. Today, some of my students tell me they receive $5,
$10 or even $20!
After the Santa Claus incident, I vowed to never lie to my
children about these fictional characters. So what
if I’m taking the fun out of their childhood? The last thing I want is to see
that look of disappointment on their faces when I tell them that Santa
Claus, the Tooth Fairy and the Easter Bunny aren’t real. I don’t want to see them cry and call me a liar.
If you teach your children not to lie, I suggest you start
practicing what you preach. Telling them the truth about Santa Claus, the
Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy could save you a lot of heartache in the long
run.
Did your parents lead you to believe that Santa Claus, the
Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy were real?
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